Conversational Subtlety and Stance
Open a theme, then select a word or phrase for its meaning, example and pronunciation.
1. Softening and distancing (20 entries)
- as it were
- split hairs
- cryptic
- mince one's words
- curt
- prevaricate
- enigmatic
- speak in riddles
- allusive
- laconic
- talk in circles
- succinct
- cagey
- pithy
- brusque
- exert quiet pressure
- surreptitious
- far be it from me to
- interrogation
- mien
2. Alignment and disaffiliation (20 entries)
- I part company with you there
- with all due deference
- be poles apart
- carry little conviction
- get short shrift
- dissension
- I wouldn't put it quite like that
- fall out of favour with
- drive a wedge between people
- go only so far
- ruffle feathers
- set people at odds
- veiled hostility
- give short shrift to
- add insult to injury
- under false pretences
- have it out with someone
- step on someone's toes
- concede
- fall on deaf ears
3. Self-correction (20 entries)
- dodge the issue
- get to the nub of the matter
- make no bones about something
- fudge the distinction
- quibble over wording
- elliptical
- make a pointed remark
- speak out of turn
- speak one's piece
- hit a false note
- retract an imputation
- hold forth on
- give someone a piece of one's mind
- equivocate
- stand corrected
- to someone's face
- let something go unchallenged
- a backchannel response
- put it to someone that
- deflect close questioning
4. Implicit evaluation (20 entries)
- conspicuous omission
- unequivocally
- unambiguously
- ostensibly
- uncharacteristically
- unreservedly
- a barbed compliment
- conceivably
- unjustifiably
- implicit
- implausibly
- unwittingly
- nominally
- justifiably
- inadvertently
- unaccountably
- demonstrably
- purportedly
- manifestly
- disproportionately
5. Managing delicate exchanges (20 entries)
- strike a conciliatory note
- grasp the nettle
- take a hard line on
- bring someone to the table
- make a pointed dig at someone
- break a deadlock
- yield the floor
- speak through intermediaries
- make a discreet overture
- make a clean break
- open a Pandora's box
- stand one's ground
- hold one's nose and do something
- leave the door ajar
- bring the parties to terms
- be in a bind
- call in a favour
- keep one's powder dry
- be on the horns of a dilemma
- be between a rock and a hard place
