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Learn English with Troy
Glory and Grief
A future can look glorious from a distance and costly when seen through one family’s loss. Follow two conversations that connect ambition with compassion.
Created by Denis M., British English teacher.
Content note: Bereavement, war, revenge and discussion of the treatment of a dead body. Adults; invented examples are welcome.
A little context: Achilles is a celebrated Greek warrior considering whether to join the expedition against Troy. His mother, Thetis, describes the futures before him. In the later scene, Priam, king of Troy, visits Achilles during the war. Focus on the choices and appeals in the scenes; the film adapts ancient stories rather than reproducing them exactly.
Watch each scene, then try its activities. Use the scene guide if you need support.
Study guidance
On my own: Start with the vocabulary. Watch, answer and read the explanations. Say your answers aloud before opening a possible answer.
With my tutor: Compare interpretations, explain the details you noticed and use the follow-up prompts to develop your answers.
- Compare two possible futures and their trade-offs.
- Explain how a personal appeal challenges a character’s perspective.
- Make sensitive requests and express preferences clearly.
These words help you discuss the scenes; not all are spoken in the clips. Examples, practice expressions and grammar models are original teaching material.
Before you watch
Imagine choosing between a quiet, satisfying life and a demanding path that might make you famous. What would matter most?
One possible answer
I would consider the people affected and the kind of daily life each path offered. Recognition would matter less to me than whether the work felt worthwhile.
Two possible futures
Achilles asks his mother about a choice with consequences far beyond the next battle.
Listen for the benefit and the cost attached to each future.
English scene guide
Thetis presents two futures: a life connected to family at home, or a place in stories told long afterwards. Each has a cost. Her description makes public recognition inseparable from personal loss. The scene asks us to consider both the value of being remembered and the life a person gives up in pursuit of that memory.
Watch and check · 6 questions
Choose one answer for each question. Use details from the scene and its English guide.
Answer key and explanations
- A. Peace and a family life. She describes affection and future generations of family.
- B. His memory would eventually fade after later generations died. Family remembrance is presented as meaningful but temporary.
- C. Glory that will be remembered for a very long time. She contrasts private remembrance with enduring public fame.
- B. He will never return home. She presents the journey as one from which he will not return.
- A. Each future offers something valuable and requires giving something up. The contrast gives benefits and costs to both paths.
- C. Living with loved ones or gaining remembrance at the cost of returning to them. The emotional contrast concerns life with family and the price of glory.
1–2 minGrammar in a minuteB2 · First conditional: comparing real future choices
Original practice, not dialogue from the film or programme.
If I accept the position, I will gain experience but spend less time at home.
Use if plus the present simple and will plus the base verb to discuss a real future possibility. A single choice can have more than one consequence, including a benefit and a cost. The example expresses a prediction, not a guaranteed outcome for every similar situation.
Speaking · 3 prompts
Explain your interpretation and support it with a detail from the scene.
- What does each future offer Achilles, and what does each require him to give up?
One possible answer
Staying offers a life with people who love him, but not lasting public fame. Going offers a legacy in stories at the cost of returning to that family life.
Which value does the film make attractive, and which cost does it make personal?
- Can a person leave a lasting legacy without being widely known? Give an invented or public example.
One possible answer
A teacher may change how several people see themselves. Their name might disappear from public memory, but the effect can continue through those people’s decisions. Fame is only one kind of legacy.
How would you recognise that kind of influence?
- Advise someone considering a prestigious opportunity that would disrupt their life. Ask two questions before giving advice.
One possible answer
What would you gain from the opportunity? What would you most regret giving up? I would weigh up the daily reality, not just the title, before deciding.
Give a balanced recommendation using one first conditional.
An enemy’s appeal
Priam comes to Achilles with a request that places personal loss at the centre of the conversation.
Notice how Priam moves between his own grief and the losses caused to other families.
English scene guide
Priam approaches the man responsible for his son’s death and asks for the body to be returned. He appeals to burial, family and a shared experience of loss. Achilles raises his own bereavement, but Priam asks him to recognise the many families affected by his actions. The encounter shifts attention from victory to the people who suffer.
Watch and check · 6 questions
Choose one answer for each question. Use details from the scene and its English guide.
Answer key and explanations
- B. Hector’s body. His central request concerns giving his son a proper burial.
- C. Kissing the hands of the man who killed his son. The gesture expresses the depth of his humiliation and grief.
- A. The death of his cousin. In this film, Achilles refers to the death of his cousin.
- B. To make Achilles consider the pain of a parent losing a child. The reference connects the request with a parent’s perspective.
- C. It challenges the idea that only Achilles’s own loss should matter. Priam asks him to recognise the wider suffering caused by his actions.
- A. He uses shared human loss to appeal to an enemy’s compassion. The appeal centres on family, grief and the dignity of burial.
1–2 minGrammar in a minuteB2 · Could you: a direct but polite request
Original practice, not dialogue from the film or programme.
Could you give us a little time to speak privately?
Could you plus the base verb is a common way to make a polite request. It normally concerns what the listener can do now or next, not their ability in the past. A clear request can remain direct while its tone acknowledges the other person’s position.
Speaking · 3 prompts
Explain your interpretation and support it with a detail from the scene.
- How does Priam try to humanise an enemy’s losses?
One possible answer
He names family relationships rather than treating the dead as anonymous opponents. Mentioning Achilles’s father invites him to imagine a familiar person experiencing a similar loss.
Which is more persuasive here: the general argument or the personal connection?
- Does understanding an opponent’s grief mean agreeing with everything they have done? Explain.
One possible answer
No. I can recognise someone’s pain without accepting their actions or claims. Compassion may create space for one humane decision even when the wider disagreement remains.
What distinction would you make between understanding, forgiveness and agreement?
- In a fictional dispute, ask for one humane concession without trying to settle every disagreement.
One possible answer
We still disagree about what happened. Could you give the family some privacy while the matter is investigated? That would not prevent either side from presenting its case.
Respond as the other party, acknowledging the request before stating any practical concern.
Listen and repeat
Original English practice. Listen, repeat and try each situation before opening a possible reply.
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I need to weigh up what I would gain and lose.
Consider a choice from both sides.
You say: You have received a prestigious offer and are asked for an immediate answer. Request time.
One possible reply
I need to weigh up what I would gain and lose. Could I give you an answer tomorrow?
Balance the stress on gain and lose.
That may bring recognition, but it also involves a sacrifice.
Acknowledge a benefit and its cost.
You say: A friend focuses only on the status of a demanding role. Add a consideration.
One possible reply
That may bring recognition, but it also involves a sacrifice. How would the hours affect the rest of your life?
Keep may cautious and avoid sounding judgemental.
Could you consider what this means for the people affected?
Invite a broader perspective.
You say: A decision is being discussed only in terms of winning. Ask about its human effect.
One possible reply
Could you consider what this means for the people affected? Their needs should be part of the discussion.
Stress people affected.
We can disagree and still treat each other with dignity.
Separate disagreement from disrespect.
You say: Two teams have an unresolved dispute. Propose a respectful way forward.
One possible reply
We can disagree and still treat each other with dignity. Let us agree on how we will speak to one another.
Pause after disagree; give dignity full stress.
1–2 minGrammar masteryB2 · Grammar mastery
Original practice, not dialogue from the film or programme.
I would rather protect the team than accept the award.
When the same person performs both actions, use would rather plus the base verb, followed by than plus another base verb if you compare preferences. This expresses a choice now or in the future. Do not add to after would rather in this pattern.
Put it all together: the life behind the legacy
Compare the future described by Thetis with the human cost expressed by Priam. Then advise a fictional leader choosing between a prestigious achievement and the needs of people affected. Explain one benefit, one sacrifice and one humane condition. Use two vocabulary items and a conditional sentence; keep the response spoken.
One possible answer
Thetis connects public glory with a private loss; Priam makes the cost personal through his grief. If the achievement depends on ignoring the people affected, it may leave a damaging legacy. I would ask the leader to weigh up the sacrifice and protect those people before pursuing recognition.
Offer a different reasonable view. Which fact about the situation would most change your advice?