Hibiscus Teach · Movies
Groundhog Day
Interested, Not Just Impressive
Show interest, describe strengths honestly and set a polite conversational boundary.
Adult-oriented romantic comedy; review strong language and sexual references. Practice concerns honest communication, not tactics for controlling another person.
Created by Denis M., British English teacher.
Ned Ryerson!
An enthusiastic former schoolmate stops Phil in the street.
Watch for: When does a reunion start to feel like a sales conversation?
Clip A quiz: 6 questions
Answer about this clip. Replay when you need to. Choose one answer for each question.
Useful English
It is good to see you, but I need to get going.
You say: End a friendly conversation because you have an appointment.
One possible response
It is good to see you, but I need to get going.
Could you remind me how we know each other?
You say: Ask someone to remind you where you met.
One possible response
Could you remind me where we met?
Keep talking: 3 questions
Speak before opening the help or example. With a partner, ask a follow-up. On your own, say your answer aloud.
What helps when you cannot remember someone’s name?
Help me start
Ask politely…
Show an example
Ask politely where you met instead of pretending to remember everything.
When does friendly enthusiasm become difficult for the listener?
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When the listener…
Show an example
When the listener gives clear signs of needing to leave and those signs are ignored.
End a conversation warmly but clearly.
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It was good…; I need…
Show an example
It was good to catch up, but I need to get to my class.
What Rita Wants
Rita describes qualities she values while Phil tries to present himself as her ideal match.
Watch for: How do Phil’s responses differ from simply listening?
Clip B quiz: 6 questions
Answer about this clip. Replay when you need to. Choose one answer for each question.
Useful English
Which of those qualities matters most to you?
You say: Ask which quality matters most in a teammate.
One possible response
Which of those qualities matters most in a teammate?
That is not really me, but this is what I can offer.
You say: Acknowledge one limitation and name a useful strength.
One possible response
I am not very competitive, but I am patient and well organised.
Keep talking: 3 questions
Speak before opening the help or example. With a partner, ask a follow-up. On your own, say your answer aloud.
Which quality matters in a study partner, and why?
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I value… because…
Show an example
I value patience because people need different amounts of time.
What is a useful way to discuss a quality you are still developing?
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I am working on…
Show an example
I am working on being more organised, so I now use a simple plan.
Describe one strength without claiming to be good at everything.
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One strength…; one limit…
Show an example
One strength is listening carefully. I am less confident speaking to large groups.
Mastery: use your English
Apply language and ideas from both clips in new situations.
Mastery: 6 questions
Use the English in a new situation. Choose one answer for each question.
Put it all together: speaking
Use English from both clips. Start with the two short questions, then take a private role each. On your own, practise both roles.
How can both clips be about failing to listen despite plenty of talking?
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One speaker…
Show an example
One speaker ignores the wish to leave; another uses every answer to promote himself.
What would an honest introduction include?
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One strength and…
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It could include one relevant strength, a concrete example and a question for the other person.
Can you reach a workable outcome together using the two private role cards?
Private Role A
You need a partner for a small presentation. You are good at research but nervous about speaking. You want to learn the other person’s strengths before agreeing.
Private Role B
You enjoy presenting but have little time for research. You can rehearse on Thursday only. Do not claim to be available at other times just to make a good impression.
Open only your own role card. Share its information by speaking, without showing the card.
Help me start
Discover the missing information; explain your constraint; respond to your partner; agree on a practical next step. Use language from both clips.
Check your conversation
- Complete the practical goal on both role cards.
- Use at least three target items naturally, including language from each clip.
- Ask a relevant follow-up and respond to information you did not know.
- End with a clear agreement, next step or summary.
Show an example
A: I can organise the research, but I am still practising speaking. What do you enjoy? B: Presenting, although I have limited preparation time. A: Could we divide the tasks? B: Yes, but I can rehearse only on Thursday. A: Let us check that date before we agree.
Try again: Thursday is unavailable. Decide whether another arrangement is possible or decline politely.