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Negative Questions: Don’t You Want to Come?

By the end: I can recognise an expectation in a negative question and answer clearly.

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Try the activities, then check your answers.

Choose a short recording.

Check an expectation

A negative question can suggest that the speaker expected a positive answer. Context tells us whether it is friendly, surprised or insistent.

Don’t you want to come?

Isn’t the café open today?

A man asks a thoughtful woman about an invitation.
Don’t you want to come?The question checks an expectation; her answer is still open.

Respond with the fact

In standard English, yes plus a positive clause confirms the positive fact; no plus a negative clause denies it. Add the clause to avoid confusion.

Don’t you drive? Yes, I do.

Aren’t you ready? No, I’m not.

A woman finishes packing papers while a ready colleague waits.
Aren’t you ready? No, I’m not.Her unfinished preparation illustrates the negative answer.

Choose wording carefully

Negative questions can sound like suggestions or challenges. A neutral positive question may be better when you do not want to signal an expectation.

Couldn’t we meet tomorrow instead?

Do you want to join us?

Guided practice

Say or write your answer first. Compare form and meaning with the model.

1. Make a negative question: You work here? Use don’t.

Compare a model and explanation

Don’t you work here?

Put don’t before the subject.

2. Make a negative question with be: The shop is open? Use isn’t.

Compare a model and explanation

Isn’t the shop open?

Use isn’t before the subject.

3. Answer Don’t you like tea? when you like tea.

Compare a model and explanation

Yes, I do like tea.

State the positive fact clearly.

4. Answer Can’t you swim? when you cannot swim.

Compare a model and explanation

No, I can’t swim.

State the negative fact clearly.

5. Correct: Doesn’t you want one?

Compare a model and explanation

Don’t you want one?

You takes don’t.

6. Make Don’t you need help? more neutral.

Compare a model and explanation

Do you need help?

Remove the negative expectation marker.

7. Can Isn’t that interesting? have different tones in different contexts?

Compare a model and explanation

Yes.

Words alone do not settle all attitudes.

8. Write a negative suggestion and a neutral alternative.

Compare a model and explanation

Couldn’t we start earlier? Could we start earlier?

Both can work, with different possible expectations.

A short conversation

Listen first, then open the transcript when useful.

Open the conversation transcript

A: Don’t you want to come with us?

B: Yes, I do. I just need to finish this message.

A: Aren’t you ready yet?

B: No, not quite. I’ll be ready in two minutes.

Listening checks

Listen to each extract or open its transcript. These three questions have a separate score.

1. Where does the listener live?
Read the listening transcript

Don’t you live near the station? Yes, I do.

2. Can the listener come tomorrow?
Read the listening transcript

Can’t you come tomorrow? No, I can’t. I’m working.

3. What function is most supported?
Read the listening transcript

Couldn’t we meet at six instead? That would work.

Mastery quiz

Choose the best answer for each situation. The score is out of eight.

1. Complete the negative question: ___ you want a seat?
2. You are ready. Answer Aren’t you ready? clearly.
3. You cannot drive. Answer Can’t you drive? clearly.
4. Which question is more neutral about preference?
5. Choose the negative be question.
6. Couldn’t we leave earlier? can function as what in planning?
7. What makes a reply to a negative question clearer?
8. Do all negative questions express anger?

Use it in your own words

Speaking 1

Ask two negative questions based on clear expectations.

Reveal a possible response

Isn’t the shop open today? Don’t you work on Fridays?

Success check: Give a brief context for each expectation.

Speaking 2

Answer one negative question positively and one negatively with full clauses.

Reveal a possible response

Don’t you like music? Yes, I do. Can’t you drive? No, I can’t.

Success check: Make the actual facts unambiguous.

Put it all together

Role-play a changed arrangement. Use a negative question, a clear reply and a neutral reformulation.

Reveal a possible response

Aren’t you coming at six? No, I’m coming at seven. Is seven still OK? Yes, it is.

Success check: Do not score tone without verified audio and context.

Take it with you

I can recognise an expectation in a negative question and answer clearly.